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Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Sort - sort of Children's Personality

This time we will discuss an equally important part is part of the personality, this is the basis of forming the character of a child. Why do we need to discuss about personality, personality is part of man which is very unique in that we have a considerable tendency to respond to everything. By understanding the personality of the child means we have to condense our time guessing, trying to understand and to understand our children, we can be much easier to understand one's children to pay attention to personality typology.Well in this article I will use tipelogi personality that is widely used by family therapists, by the manager or HRD practitioners in human resources to analyze a person's personality. This divides human personality into four major categories namely korelis, sanguinis, phlegmatis and melancholy.


Choleric personality type represents the firm and then tend to lead, well he is a born leader. A natural born leader so Choleric.Characteristics To The Point, he wants everything fast and done right away, he did not beat around the bush but on the extreme point is that he can become too dominant and too set, too controlling, so that others can not stand. And then he wanted everything done very quickly and then could be that he forgot some details about the important things to do. That's true personality type Choleric.Choleric people will dress in a practical, simple, not concerned with the clothes but more concerned with the function of the clothes. And Choleric people are usually very upright seat once and he walked with a very upright with his head held up. In fact it has a personality of each individual measure, it would be highly unlikely we find someone who truly Choleric. That means one hundred percent Choleric while in others it was zero. A child who is Choleric, usually have a strong motivation from within, the term "I know what I want". If you want to drive them, show benefits for children if they do so. For example: "If you tutoring English language it is easy for you to understand the rules of the game is often poor and you do, there are many similar games that we can play".


The next type of personality that is Sanguinists. Sanguinis was a bright, cheerful, able to hear his voice long before seen the man, very excited and when dressed in brightly colored clothing is usually lively with lots of accessories, well sanguinis is a person who likes to be center of attention. If you come to the party and see a person surrounded by the other, telling stories, all cheered and laughed, then people are told that a sanguinis. Yes, sanguinis is the center of attention. If you see people dressed sanguinis bright colors and lots of accessories, she would not be uncomfortable with it all even he would like, because that way he can attract the attention of others.Sanguinis people will walk in his bright and will look to the right and threw left many smiles to those around him. A child is a child sanguinis are very happy to play and hang out with lots of friends.Pleased with the activity of "outdoor" or togetherness of fun. Sure it easy for you to translate my language relating to child sanguinis.


Choleric type and type is the type that Extroverts sanguinis, which is open to those types. Sanguinis so very open person, so could a story about a lot of things to other people and then can be easily forgotten. People forget so easily sanguinis with his promise and also so easily he will immediately apologize. Choleric people will not do, he would be proud to apologize to us. But they basically are the ones that are open, extroverted people. Next we will discuss the Introvert personality is closed. In this section there are two types of personalities of two personalities is tipelogi Melancholy and Phlegmatis.


Melancholy is a neat, usually writing industrious, neat, complete, detailed as if they were their lecture notes will usually be borrowed by friends. And then he'll have a neat style of dressing, not a single strand of hair was combed out ok everything is neat as set in place.A melancholy always very neatly dressed at all, and included a color like the color that has a mix of colors that match. So do not be arbitrary, meaning he will not wear green subordinates and then it bright yellow. He will consider all things, that the melancholy. If you bury something can not keep very long, very long time ngambeknya can, but the melancholy is very detailed, very happy with the data and facts. Well that's a melancholy. He was so expert in the planning and expert in the analysis. The characteristics of a very melancholy child is the child looks very organized, like cleanliness, I often find them is a child who is academically intelligent and clever.Melancholic child is like "controlling" all its own. Sometimes determine who will wear clothes, eat this evening, and so on. They sometimes like to remind us, if out of the room lights turned off, tv or laptop is turned off.


Then the other personality is Phlegmatis. Phlegmatis is a personality who likes to do everything in the order given, if it was already like this so do not need another dipikirin again, well just follow it. That phlegmatis, the type of loyal followers. He could bear to sit for hours doing things for days, weeks and months in which it can not be done by a person or a sanguinis Choleric. They will not bear to sit for hours, days, weeks, months doing the same thing over and over again. Phlegmatis well suited to do it all, very loyal and trustworthy to hold a secret. That person phlegmatis, they are very easy to set up their very tolerant. Phlegmatis If you have kids, you can say "yes son is now eating", "yes" if you're busy, you can say "boy, Mama's busy now, eat later wrote yes", "yes" phlegmatis child will not sue you. That would be very different from the child Choleric "son eats it later", "no! I was willing now "that the child Choleric. Phlegmatis children usually tend to be quiet and succumb.They often avoid conflict and often give up the equipment he wrote to be borrowed and often sometimes feel "good guns" to ask for it.


Now you already know the typology Choleric, sanguinis, melancholy and phlegmatis nah one thing we know is that none of the personality typology is better than the other. It means we all have four levels of this personality typology. In us there is an element melancholy, there phlegmatis element, no element and no element Choleric his sanguinis. It's just at the part where we are dominant and that's what shapes us, that's what distinguishes us from others.Nah variable or content of any personality differences makes us so unique. There was no single person who has the same composition, everything is so different. And one of the most important thing, is as I was saying that nothing good, nothing bad here. That there is at the moment we are not aware of anyone dealing with and then we can not establish a communication, it is because we can not understand perception.

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